A Plan For Getting Rejected

A Plan for Getting Rejected In my last submit, I wrote concerning the means of desensitizing yourself to rejection. The only way to remove the facility of rejection is to apply receiving it daily. “No” only has the ability to hurt you should you let it. You have plenty of options when someone tells you no. Scott Allan, author of Rejection Free: How to Choose Yourself First and Take Charge of Your Life by Confidently Asking for What You Want, counsel these steps for asking without concern: Practice asking over and over until rejection loses its grip on you. As you get things you need (whether or not it’s additional whipped cream or a date with that hottie you’ve been sighing over), your confidence will grow. Confidence will appeal to increasingly success. You’ll discover that you just succeed much more usually and brood a lot less over what you don’t obtain. Part of the shame of rejection is that it feels like you’re the only one. Rejection occurs to everyone, every day. Go out and meet it, as a su bstitute of shrinking in the corner, ready and dreading it coming for you. Scott Allan says: “Our concern of getting rejected is, like any concern, all-empowering until we strip it of all power it has over us.” “Just get out there and get rejected, and generally it’s going to get dirty. But that’s OK, ’cause you’re going to feel nice after, you’re going to really feel like, ‘Wow. I disobeyed concern.’ ” â€" Jason Comely, Founder of Rejection Therapy.com Back to you: did you attempt any of these strategies? Have you asked for what you need lately? Leave a comment and let me know how it worked. Published by candacemoody Candace’s background includes Human Resources, recruiting, training and assessment. She spent a number of years with a national staffing company, serving employers on each coasts. Her writing on enterprise, profession and employment issues has appeared in the Florida Times Union, the Jacksonville Business Journal, the Atlanta Journal Constitutio n and 904 Magazine, as well as a number of national publications and websites. Candace is often quoted in the media on local labor market and employment issues.